Disharmony therefore results when one or the other is frustrated in the desire for self-expression. But harmony is more natural than disharmony. The union of male and female should provide an opportunity within that union for both to attain to the fullest expression of which they are capable; and neither should fund within it an obstacle which impedes his or her fullest development. Every soul is indeed seeking for completion, a search that too often ends in the destruction of beauty; since the human being, deluded and ensnared by the life on the surface, forgets to look into his self, and to discover what is the nature of that "I" which so desperately desires satisfaction.