With the wrong person, even if we do right it sometimes turns into wrong, for instance when we say to someone who is in a rage and who has just been quarrelling, "You have done wrong." By saying this we have not given him a good thought, but have only added fuel so that he may fight with us too. One often sees that when two people are fighting and a third person approaches them with the best intentions, they will both turn on him, and that will make three persons fighting at the same time.