What keeps one back in realizing this -- what is expected by Murshid -- is the lack of keen observation of the attitude and outlook and the teaching that Murshid gives. Murshid and mureed apart, however much a person be near and dear to you if that person does not feel what you expect of him, he has not arrived to be called your friend. Because there is the proof of sympathy, there is the proof of love, there is the proof of oneness, there is the proof of the link, when one begins to feel what is expected. No sooner the heart of a mureed begins to realize this, it automatically turns into a cup, and a magic cup that becomes larger and larger. And the light and life as a sacrament is filled in it, and there remains always a place to fill.