Often people who are disappointed with the world say, "My heart has grown cold," but it is actually they who suggest to themselves that their heart has become cold. Others may say, "I can no longer love," but we have come from love, we are love itself, we are made of love; how then can we no longer love? All these suggestions which are undesirable and foolish work against our life. Then there are people who imagine that nobody likes them, that everybody hates them, that everybody is jealous of them. Nobody may hate them, nobody may even dislike them, but naturally when such a thought develops in their own minds it reflects upon others and creates in them the tendency to hate and dislike.